So I'm going to be a fat bride. I've been trying to lose weight (and I lost 40 pounds last year) but have not been successful more recently. But I'm really starting to get tired of my FMIL asking me every time she sees me, "Have you lost any more weight yet?" and "Are you sure you should eat that?" for every meal we share with them. What else I am I going to eat if we are eating with them? It's silly, but not at the same time. My FH's family are all very petite people..and well...I'm not. Then I picked out my dress at David's Bridal: a wonderful, totally fun experience until some of his family members looked at the pictures of the already purchased dress and started saying, "Is that the best she could do?". It's stupid, but it was crushing. I loved the dress...it's very, very simple though (small wedding), and now I feel insecure about it.